PHEROMONES

Women and Sex.. Are they really getting it...?!! It's the general belief that women don't talk about sex...quite contrary ...women love to talk about sex - Their theory and practical knowledge earns them great grades. Women crack jokes on the subject (really dirty ones that cannot be mentioned here), there's miss know it all ... a miss shy, who with  just some encouragement would put Sunny Leone to shame ....aunty of the group, an advocate of missionary...miss laughing uncontrollably to hide the inadequacies....miss innocent who needs to be educated ...et all.

Having friends ranging from the late 20s to the 50s in both the genders and the conversations with all of them  makes me ponder on the necessity of sex and making others believe that you are getting it and getting enough of it.

A few like to flaunt their assets, (in some case missing) kind of exhibitionists, I wonder why? They strike a pose accentuating the curves, craving appreciation. The never ending visits to the beauty salons buffing up this and that, in a race to look young . Naughty talks  on Lesbianism does come up over coffee and cake. You never know what will aid in achieving the "O".

Male friends talk about their virility and priapic conquests  ...female friends talk only about  the connubial bliss...they keep their amatory conquests- a topic taboo.

Wonder why all this importance for the mundane activity of a few minutes....nah....its an art say some..... the passionate kiss, a touch, a secret eye contact which leads to the eroticism......the duty of a spouse to keep the partner from straying and looking for it elsewhere...well well....to each his own.

Sex has different connotations at different ages...in the teens it's the exploration and learning phase..then comes the ticking off stage where you keep scores..... later marriage teaches you to accept what your spouse practices, suppressing your lasciviousness. Some abhor their partners and deem them boring, some take up dance classes and learn pole dancing (!?!) .
As you grow older and burdened with life, running behind stability, sex takes a back seat...this is when your life starts slipping away into oblivion..

Spicing things up is the need of the hour I guess...buying hot lingerie...sensuous scented candles..role playing (order a cute costume).....romantic music that slowly builds onto a crescendo.....dim lights .......fixing up a time (haha!!) to channelize ones pheromones according to a timetable ...it actually defeats the purpose ...Sex has to be  spontaneous passionate erotic lust topped with love ...a heady mix of Romance and Raunchy -sounds like a good recipe eh!